The holidays look different for everyone. For some, it's a house full of family, laughter echoing through the rooms, and a table that barely fits all the dishes. For others, it's a quiet dinner with close friends, a meal at a favorite local spot, or even a peaceful day spent in reflection. However you celebrate, I hope this season gives you a moment to pause and truly feel grateful.
As someone who works with families and individuals during some of life's biggest transitions—buying a first home, downsizing after decades of memories, relocating for new opportunities—I've seen firsthand how much there is to be thankful for. A roof over our heads. A place to call our own. The people who make a house feel like home.
Gratitude isn't just something we should feel once a year. It's something I try to practice daily, both in my personal life and in how I serve you. But during the holiday season, let's make it the main event.
Here are some meaningful ways to weave gratitude into your celebrations, whether you're surrounded by dozens or spending time on your own.
One Word Blessings
Before your holiday meal begins, go around the table and have everyone share one word that captures how they're feeling or what they're most thankful for. It's simple, but it sets the tone for the entire gathering. You'd be surprised how much depth a single word can hold.
Floating Candles
Set a large bowl of water at the center of your table and give each person a small votive candle. As you take turns sharing what you're grateful for, light your candle and place it in the bowl. By the end, you'll have a glowing centerpiece that represents all the light and love in the room.
Quality Time Alone
If you're spending the holidays by yourself this year—whether by choice or circumstance—know that solitude can be a gift. It's a chance to slow down, reflect, and appreciate the life you've built. Consider journaling about what you're grateful for, taking a walk in nature, or reaching out to someone online who might also need connection. You're not alone in being alone, and there's beauty in that stillness.
Pass the Gratitude Object
A friend shared this tradition with me, and I love it. Gather everyone in a circle and pass around a meaningful object—a family heirloom, a special ornament, even a gratitude rock. Whoever holds it gets to share what they've been most grateful for over the past year. It's a simple way to make sure everyone's voice is heard.
A Few More Thoughts on Gratitude
Gratitude isn't just good for the soul—it's good for everything. Studies show it improves our emotional well-being, strengthens relationships, and even boosts physical health. When we practice gratitude regularly, we shift our focus away from what we lack and toward what we already have. And in real estate, I see this all the time: the clients who find joy in the journey, who appreciate each step of the process, are often the ones who end up truly loving where they land.
If you're looking for ways to make gratitude a bigger part of your life—not just during the holidays, but every day—consider starting small. Write down three things you're thankful for each morning. Tell someone why they matter to you. Notice the little moments: the warmth of your home, the comfort of your favorite chair, the neighborhood you've grown to love.
What Does Gratitude Look Like for You?
I'd love to hear how you're celebrating this season. What traditions do you hold close? What are you most thankful for this year? Whether it's a memory in a home you've loved, a new chapter you're stepping into, or simply the people around your table—share it with me. I'm here, and I'm grateful for each of you.
Wishing you warmth and gratitude this holiday season. 🧡